Here's my plan:
Add more oils to my ends throughout the week -- I've been fighting this moisturizing & sealing thing for my entire hair journey, but I'm finally going to start sealing with an oil after I moisturize. (So far this stretch, I've just been adding oil to my ends because my hair is still straight from relaxer day.) Also, with the weather cooling down I plan to get back on my hot oil treatments. I'll aiming for weekly/bi-weekly hot oil treatments/pre-poos.
More protein to my ends on wash day -- I learned from
that Relaxed Hair Health blog post that the protein content at the ends of my hair are more depleted than the newer/younger hair closer to my scalp and therefore they need a little more protein. I'll start with adding a protein conditioner to my ends bi-weekly and hopefully that doesn't disrupt my protein moisture balance. If it does, I'll pull back to monthly.
Continue Moisturizing through out the week -- I started this two relaxers ago and while I don't do it every single day, I do get around to it several times a week and I think it's helped me thus far, so I plan to continue.
Shorter relaxer stretches -- After a few of you mentioned this to me, I've decided that you might be right about this. I didn't have so much trouble with thinning ends when I stretched my relaxer for 12/13 weeks at a time. And lately (since late 2012), I've been doing 15-17 week stretches, which seems coincide with the new hair drama. Therefore, my new plan is to go back to my 12 to 14 week stretches.
And there you have it, for the next 12 weeks, I'll be implementing these new elements into my healthy hair journey. Hopefully, my ends will at the very least stay the same. As you can see from the pictures I did NOT do a major trim--I didn't have the heart to go back to just above BSL again. Instead I trimmed one inch from the ends of my hair as I was flat ironing (see video above for demonstration). I will continue with this method of trimming for my next relaxer as well. My general plan is to hold tight at MBL until I can get my ends together. Hopefully that won't take more than 2 or 3 relaxer stretches.